Many people, circumcised or natural, are attracted to young lovers. They state various reasons for this, apart from promiscuity, individual psychological traits or problems with the peer lovers. The physical perfection or better health, the greater vigour, energy, enthusiasm and sexuality of young people are often mentioned. It is true that the bored and tired adults may need extra energy, optimism and stimulation to borrow from the young lovers effortlessly so they ‘feel alive and young again’, as they say. However, young people are emotionally immature. Their unrefined personality, impatience and lack of experience and tact are often frustrating and may have the opposite effect. The characteristics cited above that make young lovers desirable seem to be inessential. They are mostly physical, relate to bodily aspects of sex and disrespect deeper psychological connections.